Tess
Janet, If you want privacy, there are a lot of good sites on the web. Use key word herpes and you will find links. Keep searching and reading and you will feel better as you educate yourself. If you feel comfortable talking with others, go to your doctor and just share your concerns. It gets easier to talk about the more educated you are. Surf the net and you will find lots of sources. Remeber, lots of people have this (including self), but life goes on. Educate yourself and your partner if you are with one. As you do, you will find yourself more at peace with it.