My daughter has bpd and is becoming impossible to live with. She will not listen to any suggestions and she is not taking care of herself. She is in therapy, but her behavior is very difficult to live with. I keep on trying to help her, but I feel as if my own personal survival is being effective adversely. I don't want to give up on her, but I am not sure that staying here with me is helping either one of us. She tells me she is not able to do anything. Although, she quite clearly can do the things she choses to do. Please held with some direction. I live in New York State. Thank you.