I do understand what you are talking about. I have had it for many years and could not get anyone to listen to me either. I had some Drs, tell me see a shrink because there was nothing wrong that they could find. There were times it was a struggle to even walk across the room without setting down and feeling exhausted. YES it is very depressing. There were times I said " if this is what life is all about I don't think I want to go on. I have gotten some help from a Naturopathic Dr. She has helped me more than anyone. I took IV's of high doses of vitamins and minerals which has helped with the tiredness. I guess I have gotten used to the pain unless it is extreme. The hormone Relaxin has helped and she has given me reglar hormone replacemant which has helped too. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to e-mail me. I've been there and know it is important to have someone who understands. Have you tried any medications at all? Looking forward to hearing from you.