Early Menopause You have my deepest empathy! My best friend was having this same problem in 1999. She was 29 with an 8-year old son but also wanted more children. She went to doctor after doctor and they too gave her all types of recommendations but nothing was really helping and she did not think she would be able to have anymore kids. I had another friend to talk to her about an herbal product that I was taking called the TOTAL WOMAN to see if it might be able to help her. She tried it and it did help her. It actually balanced all of her hormones, which helped her menopausal symptoms tremendously. Especially the hot flashes and cramping. This is now January 2001 and I am happy to say that my best friend is about to have a baby girl any day now!!! Please feel free to contact me if you would like more information.