This is a medical problem. The adult diaper industry has done a great disservice to women in particular. You need to see your physician. There are several prescription medications that address this problem. I have been taking meds for this for several years. Mine was a frequency and urge incontinence problem. I was getting up six to seven times a night. Now, I'm rarely awakened. When I had to go, often I'd have leakage. Please tell your physician about this. You don't need the diapers.