I would suggest that you have your husband and the rest of your family read all the information you and your doctor can find on this decease. Once they learn what this virus can do and that you are not just being lazy, they may change their minds about how they feel about you. They may even help you. Knowledge is power!! I have chronic lymes decease and chronic fatigue syndrome and my life has changed completely. I have learned what I can and cannot do. I do a little each day (such as: vacuum and dust one day; cook dinner another day; do laundry another day; etc..) Even when I feel a little better, I only do a little each day or I am washed out for several days. Pain management classes may help. Physical therapy and massage therapy do help. God bless.