My son had ADHD and an anxiety disorder as well as mild asthma. We sought help with a behavioral phychologist. His behavior at home drove us nuts. The things the psychologist taught we still use today. HE is now in college. He was on meds up until 8th grade but he never did well on them. The ADAH got better in high school but is again showing itself in his first year at college. HE is currently taking 5 mg of buSpur to take the edge off. He is still unorganized but the meds seem to be helping. Feel free to write back. We have been through a lot and it is very easy to get discouraged. All in all my son is doing very well and is a great kid. Good luck.