How old is she? I have a 10 year old boy with the same problem. I've spoken to the doctor about it every year at check up time, and he keeps suggesting that some boys (more so than girls)gain the ability to control this much later than others, and not to worry. He also is a heavy sleeper, and doesn't even wake up when he wets the bed. I'll see what the doctor says next month when he goes for his annual check up. The doctor may change his opinion this year with my son's advancing age.