Whatever you decided to do, you must realize that this is a condition that CANNOT be fixed without professional help. My son thought he could help a girl with anorexia, and eventually married her. What a disaster. After a year of "hell" she has agreed to counseling, but it will take a very long time to begin the healing. This is something the individual cannot control themselves. They MUST have help. There are alot of good websites dealing with anorexia and bulemia. Read up on all you can. But remember, both diseases take their physical toll on the body, and many of those cannot be redeemed. The longer the person has the disorder, the more damage is done. Good luck!