Hey, I am really impressed with your maturity and concern on this subject. I don't think that many men could handle this issue with so much level-headed thinking. I don't know exactly what to tell you because there are so many different reasons and problems that go along with bulemia. If you want to talk to me about some advice email me. I was bulemic for three years and still battle the urges, especially when I go home to where the problem began (I'm at college right now). I would love to be of some help.