Have anybody suggested to you that she might have narcolepsy? Many persons with narcolepsy have these terrible dreams. Narcolepsy is difficult to assess in children, it usually starts in the early teens, but it may start in early childhood. I know a doctor in Chicago who is very good at sleep disorders. If you would like to get in touch with him, let me know. Good luck from Norway! Gerd Strand, director of National Resource Center for AD/HD, Tourette Syndrome and Narcolepsy.