Kari
Paul - I am truly sorry to hear of your health news. My father had stomach cancer @ 53. He had his stomach removed two years ago and is in remission. I understand your concern of for avoiding surgery. I am by no means a expert just a family member watching someone they love go through difficult times. I won't lie to you and tell you your life does not change. It does. Unfortunatley, my father has had several problems with food intake since his surgery. This is sometimes common in patients. From what I have read it is becoming a lot less of a sympton after surgery. Think through your decisions and get all the information you can via doctors, internet. etc. I would also suggest talking with people who have had the surgery as well. If you would like to talk please feel free to email me. I hope this helps in some way. I will keep you in my prayers for a healthy and quick recovery. Kari