You are so right...I tell my husband when I think he is getting too rough.Men think kids are toys sometimes There brains just have to hit the back of there head and then the front and there you have SBS. So easy. You are right!!! My friend has a 3 yr old boy who was in a jumplen that bouncy thing they jump in, her husband thought it would be fun to lift it as the little boy jumps, well he was like a wet wash cloth and was out for 20 mins the parametics said he was lucky it was a nerve in the spin area that got pinched my friend said he looked like he was dead. I have two children of my own and I will not allow anyone to throw them in the air..etc their little brains are like jello.