Please, limb lengthing will not change who your daughter is inside. It is a very painful, long procedure. My son, now 20 thought about it, but heard there are a lot of complications involved with it. even if you length the legs, and then arms, the fingers cannot be done. the head is still larger. Right now you and your daughter can join "Little People of America" and find out much more than I can tell you. What I can say is that Dwarfism is not just something you see on the outside, it is also a feeling that many don't see, on the inside.