Yes I can relate to your problem as I am in the same boat as you. And aren't jeans and panty hose (cotton gussett of course!!) the worst. I'm in an office job and it's annoying when I want to wear a skirt with panty hose. I was referred to a naturopath by my local pharmacist because I was forever going in there at least once a month for treatments. The doctors did nothing for me at all and I've been getting these infections for nearly 16 years!!! They HAVE got worse as I've gotten older. It's also hard to explain it to others if you need to because when they don't understand it they DO think you're dirty and I hate that too. It's such a personal thing. maybe we can talk more?