Hi, I also I'm raising a nine year old that was a shakenbaby. She came to us when she was 3 months old. She is now in the 3rd grade and is really starting to struggle with it. I feel so bad for her because the older she gets the more noticable her disabilities are. She also has a twin brother so she constantly compares herself to him. I am trying to find out if there are any places that may help us find resources to use at home with her. I would like to hear from you about your situation and what services you may be using to help you raise your child.